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  22 août 2025

  It may have come as a shock to some of you when I mentioned that I love small tattoos especially the ones on the hands because I am a Jehovah witness. Being a Christian doesn't exempt you from wanting to do certain things because you still have your own...

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  22 août 2025

  I’ve always been into psychology. I remember when I was a kid I kept about writing how sad I was and how I hated living not knowing what was wrong with me or why I kept feeling this way. The older I got the more research I did on my symptoms to understand...

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  19 août 2025

  I cracked the code! Now I see how these girls are growing their glutes and legs while still having a flat stomach! it's tough to do because you eat to gain more glutes or do you eat less to have a flat stomach? I was split between the 2 because my goal...

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  30 août 2025

  I will have to return it, sadly I couldn’t sleep last night and upon my research there’s caffeine in it ugh and I am very sensitive to caffeine infused products. On top of it this suppresses your appetite I can’t have that I am bulking right now, I need...

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  18 août 2025

  As you all know Ai has been taking over our lives and a lot of people are relying on them for everything. Some people consider these Ai features as their own personal friends and even boyfriends which is scary! I enjoy those features especially when I...

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  16 août 2025

  Things I am actively working on as an avoidant: When someone ignore me: before I used to act as I didn’t care at all because again I would avoid how I feel because I have to present this stoic attitude even if deep inside what they did to me hurt me....

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  14 août 2025

  Someone told me “ how do you not care !? Me I would freak out and never show my face again” honey I am strong! Whatever anyone does to destroy me cannot break me unless I let it. Jehovah is my father and in him I trust. I don’t care who don’t like me,...

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  02 août 2025

  Burnout. I am experiencing a mini burnout and what do I do? I listen to my body, I don’t push it. I came home today and I felt like taking a nap so I took one. Things I do during a burnout to recharge me: Grocery shopping Eat clean Drink lots of water...

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  31 juillet 2025

  The book that I was reading on fearful avoidant did not match me at all, the more in depth my research has gotten the more I realize I identify way more with dismissive avoidant! Ugh the worse. I knew I was an avoidant but I am not as anxious to be in...

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  08 août 2025

  when I post about my work outs at the gym, some people might think that it is easy for me because I am always motivated but that's not true! sometimes I don't want to go but I know if don't go because simply "I don't feel like it" and not for a real cause...

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  06 août 2025

  When a girl is telling me " I don't want to lift heavy because I don't want to look bulky" I almost want to laugh because you don't just get bulky after you lift a heavy dumbbell! as women we don't build muscles like men. Women don't get bulky unless...

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  06 août 2025

  some people think working out is about the body and building muscle but it has more to do with your mental. On the days you push yourself when you thought you couldn't do it that was your mental strength pushing you fueled by discipline. You are changing...

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  06 août 2025

  I think in a relationship I would benefit from someone who's just as busy as me. I don't really have time to speak to someone on the phone all day, I can text but phone calls all day is crazy. we can check in at the end of the day but we can always call...

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  06 août 2025

  one more hobby that has my heart and saved me when I was younger is reading! it was an escape for me when I was going through something traumatic. I still love reading even if I read less now because my attention span has decreased since I use my phone...

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  06 août 2025

  As you come here lately, you may see me focus more on healing, attachment styles,fitness, mental health and sometimes fashion because I love dressing up and looking good. Some people might think why does focus so much on healing? I am just imaging this,...

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  10 août 2025

  Ever since I started working out 6 days a week , I am almost always hungry. I always want to eat! Even if I just ate, yes I still want some food. If you look at me yes I want a snack just give me one ugh I can’t ! My appetite is just through the roof...

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  03 août 2025

  The parts that I like about being a dismissive avoidant are below I’m always going to be okay because I don’t dwell on my emotions by the fact I have no idea what I’m feeling right now but I always claim that things are going to be bad. I suffered from...

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  01 août 2025

  Finding out that I have a dismissive avoidant attachment style yesterday really open up my eyes and to really see where I need healing. To heal a wound you need to see where it is to take care of it, if you don't see it you won't be able to know or begin...

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  02 décembre 2024

  Is it shallow? I was talking to a friend and she told me that I am vain for wanting a tall guy. I laughed because I thought it was funny the way she said it, but was she right? I believe we all deserve to date someone we are physically attracted to. If...

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  31 juillet 2025

  I knew that I didn’t identify with disorganize attachment or fearful attachment when I read that those people cling to their partner and often have trouble to let go of a relationship! What sealed the deal is when I read those people always have to be...

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  31 juillet 2025

  I am reading this book and I’m half way through, I wanted to put it down multiple times because this book is reading me for filth ! I don’t agree with everything because I don’t relate to everything. But the unhealed version of me knows that this book...

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  16 mars 2025

  Why did Real Madrid play yesterday!? Because they played on Wednesday in the champions league and the match was 120 minutes with added time and penalty shoot out the players are clearly exhausted from that! Both Mbappé and Jude played the whole 120 minutes...

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  02 février 2025

  I started working on 7 months ago! Not even a year and I’ve almost already seen so much progress in my physique and in my mental health. I don’t know what pushed me to sign up at the gym but whatever it was I am soooo grateful. I feel so happy that I...

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  21 janvier 2026

  Today Mbappé played well! He scored 2 goals against As Monaco his old club, he used to play for them when he was 18-19. To show how grateful he was for his old club he didn’t celebrate the goals instead he apologized and waved ;) ugh he’s sooo cute! Everything...

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  10 janvier 2026

  there's a war going on inside my mind and it's just me vs me. My biggest enemy is my own brain but the only way to get my happiness back and calm my mind is to work out and sleep. Lately I get this feeling and I can't explain it but I am realizing some...